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Jack2DaDog · 11-18-2008, 10:15 PM

I hate the fact most girls get all paranoid if you flirt with other chicks or even give them a lil hug or anything. I have never cheated on a girl and never will. I just dont get why they are so suspicious all the time.

Already Heard · 11-18-2008, 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by jack2dadog

i hate the fact most girls get all paranoid if you flirt with other chicks or even give them a lil hug or anything. I have never cheated on a girl and never will. I just dont get why they are so suspicious all the time.

QfT

Ragefuii · 11-18-2008, 11:10 PM

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Originally Posted by MattBleez

I know you will take this as an insult, but it truly is not meant to be one.

Do you have many hobbies outside of like tv/computer/videogames? (Key Word: Many). Many of us on this forum do not so if your answer is no then you are not alone. You could like girls but not think you are interesting enough or you don't really do much, maybe you are slightly embarrased that you edit montages etc. If this is the case, try and pick up some hobbies outside of the houseetc. I mean I am sure you have a few, but simply start doing more. You may gain something you neverknew you were missing.

OR

It may be you are too immature yet for a relationship.

yours,

I agree 100% with you, I lost all interest in talking to girls after i knew them for a while when I started getting on the computer/Xbox all the time. I was perfectly fine talking to girls when I skated a lot and when I do some sort of physical sport. I noticed this year I also started getting nervous talking to girls but I just recently started skating again and I can talk to any girl I want. It's weird but true, try finding more activities.

Arsonism · 11-19-2008, 02:04 AM

The relationship that I have right now is of distance... all we can do is talk on the phone and then I get to see her every 2 week or every 4 depending on the terms. I get to see her for a week this next week and thats something we haven't done for some time now.... not since the summer.

I don't even remember how many hours I had talked on the phone with her in one statement... it was probably just as much or more than the amount of sleep that I got during that month. Wouldn't surprise me at all... But, all in all, I love my girl and if there is anything I can do to communicate with her... I make sure to do it.

Sometimes it is hard to find things to talk about, and we don't talk much... that I think has really only happened about once or so... she and I both have jobs and something is always going on between them... and also there is always something occuring with the schools we both attend. But, I can see where people get stuck in conversations on the phone... especially when it comes to people who text a lot. Its hard to keep conversations going with specific people, and I've been there done that. Those are the people that you know you can't carry out a relationship with because you don't have the things to communicate with. Those things may be one of the most important things to actually carrying out a long term relationship... If you can't communicate, you won't be able to comprehend the person that your attempting to communicate with... and if you understand them, then your not going to do a very good job at preserving the feelings or the relationship that you have with that person...

I'll expand another time... as if I probably haven't already made a wall that no one will read...

Gh0stS4g3 · 11-19-2008, 03:15 PM

I hate temptation. When other girls want you but you cant do anything. Ill never cheat on my gf but Im coming very close to, I dont think I could moraly deal with it.

Also, when I have trouble hitting on some girls, and others it takes no effort. WTF is with that.

~~Landers is HOTT~~ · 11-19-2008, 04:05 PM

Ive been in a relationship for like 17 months and its way the fuck better than just flirting around with random chicks

The Nameless · 11-19-2008, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Landers is HOTT

Ive been in a relationship for like 17 months and its way the fuck better than just flirting around with random chicks

now this is the qft

flirting and messing with other girls isnt really my thing.
It may be fun for that moment but in the long run its no good.

Clay · 11-19-2008, 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by MattBleez

I know you will take this as an insult, but it truly is not meant to be one.

Do you have many hobbies outside of like tv/computer/videogames? (Key Word: Many). Many of us on this forum do not so if your answer is no then you are not alone. You could like girls but not think you are interesting enough or you don't really do much, maybe you are slightly embarrased that you edit montages etc. If this is the case, try and pick up some hobbies outside of the houseetc. I mean I am sure you have a few, but simply start doing more. You may gain something you neverknew you were missing.

OR

It may be you are too immature yet for a relationship.

yours,

I doubt this is John's problem.

I know what you're going through buddy, and it's called wanting what you can't have. As soon as you get it, you feel accomplished and don't really care to have it now that you've proved it possible. I've dealt with the same exact thing before.

One thing that pisses me off is when a girl cheats on you and tells you it doesn't mean anything and expects you to forget about it, or when a girl is wrong about everything she has done in a relationship but still finds a way to make you feel like it is your own fault.